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by Derek Gore,
RV Roadie
Alternatives? You bet!
A good medium sized dog can be an even bigger deterrent than
a gun, and while touring protects your rig while you are
both gone. I am not talking about a trained attack dog or a
biter. Those are more of a liability than they are worth. Or
a barker, that would drive me nuts, not to mention the
neighbors. Just a good dog that will alert on someone
knocking on the door or at night. We have traveled with a
69-pound Shar-pei who we have had since he was a pup and is
now 9 years old. He is not a biter, barker, nor a vicious
dog. I am the defense in our "Pack" he is our furkid only.
But he sure looks and sounds intimidating. Sure, a
determined intruder can shoot a dog, but a determined
intruder is so rare as to be not worth considering in my
experience. There are far too many rigs without dogs for a
burglar to consider the extra risk of trying to deal with
one. Burglars just go elsewhere where the pickings are
easier. Carjackers would have little chance with him in the
cab of our truck. He's always on a leash outside and never
staked out.
Pepper spray is not a very good alternative because it
simply doesn't stop a determined attacker at all. This has
been proven again and again. Worse, many in a defensive
posture don't have the presence of mind to notice the wind
direction and spray themselves as well! This is true of any
spray.
Baseball bats, knives, hammers etc. are probably not a good
idea because they are considered deadly force too, when used
against a person. Pulling them out and chasing the intruder
away only proves that they were not armed. If they are
armed, they would be justified in pulling any weapon they
have in self-defense, from their perspective. Or if big
enough, and you aren't, will simply take it away. Using
close-in weapons also takes more training, more physical
strength, and requires you to get in reach of an assailant.
Horns installed outside and good scare lights are a very
good bet. I have even heard of folks wiring in switches that
flash all their rig's clearance lights and starts the horn
beeping, now that is a good deterrent! I would use two
switches so that the flashing clearance lights could be used
alone to guide visiting friends, who are new to the park,
right to your rig when the site numbers are hard to see or
at night. Handy either way.
I read about thieves breaking into a MH parked behind a
Cracker Barrel restaurant while the owners were eating by
breaking the door glass and reaching in to unlock the door.
Deadbolts were mentioned but I would like to add here that
having the breakable glass in the door replaced with
security glass, that has wire embedded in it, makes your rig
much harder to break into whether you are in it or not. Then
I would replace any outside window frame screws with anti
tamper star screws (can't be unscrewed without the exact
tool.) Very easy and relatively cheap modification that any
glass company can do.
But let me reiterate again that the above are just steps to
avoid any confrontation with intruders. Following those
steps with or without a gun should get everybody through
unless that front door comes under attack. Think of the
steps as trip wires, and until that door breaks in, which
from my experience is highly unlikely, most if not all
intruders will depart for easier pickings. And you stay safe
from harm. They can have the lawn chairs and the grill, I
can have my wife and pup in one piece. Either way there will
be paperwork. I prefer the insurance form and police theft
report to the police homicide statement.
So there are things we all can do, gun owners or not, to
avoid and prevent any situation from escalating into
personal harm.
I often hear that the reason for our criminal problems is
the many guns in the hands of the citizens. What if
everybody had a gun? Would we have more murders?
Switzerland has just that, but not in those numbers of
course. Every male in that country is issued a rifle,
pistol, or both, and is considered a part of the militia for
life. Every household is armed. And every male citizen
serves two years active duty. They have very little violent
crime per capita. I am not proposing that, merely pointing
out that the concept is not necessarily one to have
nightmares over. (Although after 27 years with the military,
I would certainly think it would do the country a lot of
good from ALL of the training, not just weapons, if all were
to have to serve a minimum time.)
Where do we go from here? There are already millions of gun
owners in this country. My post was clear in that we do not
feel the need to carry a gun in our truck, or concealed on
our person, although both my SH and I could certainly
qualify for a concealed carry license with our law
enforcement and Military backgrounds.
I did outline a middle of the road approach that outlined
some security and safety pre-planning for all RVrs, gun
owners or not. We don't feel the need to carry, and stated,
that neither do most RVrs. For those that choose to have
one, I outlined some safety items that through the thousands
of handgun classes I have taught, found most
non-professionals never consider, such as safe zones of
fire. There are lots of more important issues for RVrs to
worry about. Like the RVr with a severely overloaded rig,
that really could cause us harm on the road. I did not cover
types of ammo or guns since that would not have been on
topic.
Choosing to own a gun is no more an indicator of aggressive
tendencies, than owning spare tires for our rigs is an
indication that we want to have a flat.
To those who do not want a gun do not take my posts as
arguing that you should have one.
No one is going to even try to prove you wrong! <grin> I am
with you! Just because I have a last resort option doesn't
mean I even think about it, let alone worry about it ever
happening. Life is too short to live it in fear. Let me say
it again, the odds are with you from what I have seen on the
road.
I don't even believe I have ever seen two RVrs not married
to each other even have a heated argument! And the married
ones only when backing the rig! LOL! I don't mean to come
across as a "Pollyanna," and lead one to believe that the
world is full of only wonderful people. We all know better
than that.
But by definition, an RVr has to choose parking places that
are larger than what a passenger car or truck can use. So
with few exceptions we are around other RVs and truckers
most of the time. Those who choose to get away from
everybody including other RVrs are in the minority.
I am talking the half time and full time RVrs I have met on
the road in the next few sentences when I say RVrs. That is
not saying that all RVrs are half or full timers, or
excluding part timers from being RVrs. Just for the purpose
of relating what I have found with the group I hang out with
on the road, only because they have the same interests as I
do-being on the road most of the time.
Most RVrs are successful enough in life to have a rig. Most
RVrs have been married longer than the average. Most RVrs
are over 50. Most are on the road because they genuinely
like people and meeting new friends. Most are adventurous in
wanting to see new horizons and places that they didn't have
time for in their working lives. Most are responsible,
mature, and easygoing. Most will go out of their way to help
each other. Most have activities that keep them busy in
between touring whether a hobby, the rig upkeep, a workamp
job, writing, or running an on the road business. Most RVrs
are no longer concerned with comparing material items or
feeling superior or inferior to another RVr.
Now let's be realistic about the fact that few non-RVrs
cruise RV parks. Few non-RVrs will "case" an RV in a group
of two or more RVs boondocking in a public area. Few folks
with bad intent will drive 20 miles out of the way to cause
mischief. Few tourist areas have no police presence. It is
difficult to commit a crime against someone traveling at 50
MPH or more going down the road. At no time except in
dangerous animal areas have I ever seen a gun while Rving,
and never in the hands of an RVr. (Most Alaskans in the bush
do carry one) I have never witnessed or been in a park or
boondock area where any assault or violent crime has
occurred. (I am sure that has happened somewhere, but never
saw one or even heard of one where I have been.) Most RV
parks have an office and some restrictions on entry and
exit. Most RVrs leave grills and chairs out around their rig
and never have ever had any theft.
We, both by distance and attitudes, are living in a
different world, reality, and culture, than the rest of the
population. We re-enter that other world at will, or stay
away from it at will. Even when touring we are usually
surrounded by non-RVrs and vacationers with only fun and
seeing the sights in mind.
My post was first and foremost to reassure those that are
about to embark on this wonderful lifestyle, that there is
virtually no violent crime that I have seen on the RV
circuit. Which is not to say it couldn't happen. Just that
in traveling for six years I have found that the nightly
news paints an entirely different picture than you will find
out here in the real world. Oh there are bad folks in the
world, I think we can all agree on that. But I said
repeatedly that the only use we felt might provide a need
for our firearms is protection against dangerous animals way
up north. And we did not need them there either!
So let me say it again. People are by and large wonderful.
You don't need to fear for your lives or possessions on the
road as full-timers, assuming you take reasonable care in
where you stop or park. (Reasonable care, not paranoia)
I love being able to stroll at night with my significant
harassment, visiting friends in the parks and boondock sites
we have been to, in perfect safety. We never travel at
night, but not out of fear, simply because to assure there
is a space left, we try to arrive by 2 PM wherever we are
going to spend a night or 30.
As RVrs we are pretty far removed from the inner cities
where most crime occurs. We don't deal drugs or fence stolen
goods. We don't pick up hitchhikers, or pull into bars for a
"liquid lunch."
By and large our rigs are harder to break into because of
the height of our windows above the ground. And as stated,
most of us don't really have a lot of "stuff" but
electronics that a thief could sell for money. And today,
the price of TVs and VCRs, even computers, is so low as to
not make them the high value items they were a few years
ago.
RVrs generally dress in denim and sneaks, and rarely parade
any family jewels around. We use credit and debit cards and
rarely carry large amounts of cash.
We are simply not on the "radar screen" of most thieves!
I think that all of us have some trepidation about security
when we first start out. Some much more so than others. But
after a few months on the road find that we are moving in a
different world than the rest of society where all the
"statistics" come from. And love it! With few exceptions we
have chosen to get rid of most of the material things and
don't give a hoot about keeping up with the "Jones's." Most
RVrs have cell phones, and are surrounded by folks who would
help in any situation that comes up, from medical to RV
problems.
So relax and enjoy the lifestyle. I feel safer in my RV
traveling than I did living in town. Not that I was overly
concerned there either. None of that is due to having any
arms. In fact, as far as personal security is concerned I
don't feel any real pressing need to have them around. That
was my message. Still is. These discussions can tweak
newbies into ungrounded fears for their personal safety.
I was certainly not advocating the use or possession of guns
for everybody, nor that anybody "should" or "shouldn't" own
one. My post applied to non-gun owners as well as owners. I
merely pointed out that there are several things that can be
done if you have a thief or worse make you the one in a
million statistic, making the chance of contact with a
burglar or thief less likely.
My post did not deal with the issue of pro or anti gun
ownership. In fact I repeatedly said that they are
superfluous in our experience, while Rving, from a "need for
personal defense" perspective.
Put another way. There are those that also think they will
win the lottery and buy that ticket daily. (I personally
think it is a tax for the math impaired! LOL!) After a few
months most rational folks stop thinking they will win every
night and some stop buying them, others continue, and many
only buy them when everybody else is because the stakes just
went through the roof. (Along with the odds!) Why? Because
there is always a winner! It is announced, and that alone
insures that many will continue. In psychology that is
called intermittent reinforcement. Same thing at work in a
casino. And the same thing at work in those that are fearful
all of the time because of the nightly news. It doesn't have
to happen to them for it to be a belief that it can/will.
And it most certainly can, just like winning the lottery.
Likely? Hardly.
I did deal with several issues.
Prevention issues like:
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The easy and cheap replacement of the easily breakable glass
in the front door with security glass.
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The ease of installing switches to turn on and flash your
clearance lights as well as your scare lights.
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The ease of installing a horn switched to be able to
manually turn it on.
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The fact that burglars are more likely to go to a rig
without a dog than one that has one.
And in the highly unlikely event that you do encounter a
thief issues like:
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To call for help first, so if possible, it is on the way.
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To switch on the outside lights and any flashers or horns
you might have.
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The practice of not betraying your position or turning on
inside lights and losing your vision at night.
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To wait, with no indication of your readiness or not, by
verbal warning, for that help until the last possible
second.
So can we avoid letting this subject degenerate into
stereotypes, or irrational fears of crime, or gun owners,
that simply don't stand up to actual experience?
Do not get a gun from this article. Do not get rid of your
gun from this article.
I would be horrified if anyone did either based on my
writing. These are individual choices, and I am not
responsible for the outcome if you choose not to, or choose
to, have a gun onboard the rig. Make your choices
rationally, and with good information. Be responsible
whether you own a gun or not.
Many of the hammers, saws and axes mentioned are considered
lethal weapons when used in a confrontation. Be aware of
that and act responsibly and in your best interests. We
always taught those that must go in harm's way, both
military and police, that you can always escalate a
situation if you go in cool and it becomes hot. But if you
go in hot, you cannot cool it down. Thus my article.
If you are fearful all the time, get help; non-specific
anxiety can be treated.
Courage is not the absence of fear; it is the management of
fear rationally. How? By not stopping at the fearful
thought, but thinking it all the way through, and coming to
your decision and resolution. There lies peace.
Peace to you all.
©Derek Gore/RV
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